Are you a romance reader? Do you love sitting for hours getting swept away in the latest paranormal or sexy contemporary? Me too! But you know what I don’t love? Getting out of shape. That kind of sucks. A lot. But it’s not an unusual story. The more sedentary we are, the softer our bodies become. A few months ago, I decided to take control of my health….here is my story.
I have struggled with my weight for as long as I can remember and food has controlled me in one way or another. I weighed my heaviest in high school and clocked in at around 230 pounds but my senior year I got active and lost a lot of it. I was able to maintain my weight around 160 after the birth of my first two children. However, after my twins arrived (boys #3 and #4) my weight never got below 175.
I thought that was where my body was “meant” to be and try as I might I couldn’t get below that. More often than not, I was above it.
A couple of years ago, I reached a personal and professional milestone and quit my day job to write full-time. It’s been a dream come true to do what I love for a living but as with most things there is a downside. Sitting at a computer 6-8 hours a day 5 or more days a week is not good for the waistline.
While attending a reader convention in Florida this year in early February, I saw pictures of myself that people were posting and I could no longer deny it. I’d let my weight get out of control. It wasn’t the lighting or the angle…I’d gotten fat again and I felt disgusting. While in my hotel room crying about the state I’d gotten myself into.
I knew I needed to make a change.
I used Nutrisystem to help me get my eating under control but it was the T25 workouts and Shakeology that totally changed my body! I told myself that I could commit to 25 minutes a day…and I did! I mean come on…we’ve all got 25 minutes. Right?
I set a goal of losing 30 pounds and that would get me back to my pre-baby/wedding weight. To be honest, I really didn’t think I would be able to do it. I thought, well…I’m 44…I’ve had 4 boys…this may just be where I’m supposed to be.
NOPE! I actually surpassed my 30 pound weight loss goal and thanks to my 6 day a week workout schedule I wear a smaller size now than I did 20 years ago.
I went from a tight size 12 to a size 6/8!
I was 187 pounds and now I’m around 153.
I feel incredible!!! My energy is great. My blood pressure, which had gotten high, is back in the healthy range. My skin looks better. I look and feel younger. For the first time in 40+ years I wore a bikini at the pool and beach this summer!!!!
THAT is a huge personal milestone and I still can’t quite believe I got here.
Food is no longer for numbing pain or feeding stress. It is for fueling my body and that’s it.
I have control. Not the food.
Take it from this 44 year old mother of 4 boys….It’s never too late to take control and get the body you want!!!
The shot above is my before and after. T25 is the workout program that helped me change my body and my life!!
Like a lot of romance writers, I have a large social media platform and I was sharing my T25 fitness journey along the way. The response has been overwhelming. It turns out a lot of readers and writers are in the same boat and it’s not surprising.
Reading is a sedentary hobby and writing is a sedentary career, so it isn’t a huge shock that weight related challenges are prevalent in our industry.
It got me thinking…. Why not start a fitness community that’s specifically for the romance community? I wanted to create a safe, supportive, fun environment that was a NO JUDGEMENT ZONE! All fitness levels are welcome.
Let me stress one more thing….you are beautiful and fabulous regardless of what your body does or doesn’t look like. Please do not mistake my personal journey as some kind of judgement on others. If you are happy and healthy, then rock on!!
However, if you aren’t feeling great and you havethe desire to make some changes for you...then please join us.
I am thrilled to say we have almost 500 members and are adding more every day! The shot above is from RWA14 in San Antonio. So if you’re looking to get healthy, while reading or writing smexy romance, then join us!!! In the Romance Fit Club for Readers and Writers you’ll get the trifecta formula for success!
NUTRITION + FITNESS + SUPPORT = SUCCESS!
Do you want to get started and get in the best shape of your life? What are you waiting for?
Today is the day. Start here.
Are you ready? Join ROMANCE FIT CLUB here in the private Facebook group!